At some point in your life, somebody will do something to offend or disrespect you. If you've never experienced this...just keep on living. We can't always control what happens to us, but we do have the ability to control how we respond. I personally used to be a very VINDICTIVE person if somebody would cross the line. This gradually caused me to become mean-spirited, stressed and angry. Rather than chill...I was always very uptight. The Bible says, "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord" (Romans 12:19). This verse became an anchor to my restless soul and I'm hopeful you would consider embracing it as well if you're struggling to forgive someone.